The Search for Purpose in the Age of AI

Christian Dominique

A New Search for Purpose in the Age of AI and The Unveiling of LUMI
In 2025, a new pattern began to emerge in how people use artificial intelligence. Beyond emotional support, many individuals now ask AI a deeper question: what am I supposed to do with my life. This quiet shift reflects something larger than a trend. It reflects a growing sense that people feel disconnected from purpose, overwhelmed by constant digital noise and uncertain about how to orient themselves in a world that demands their attention from every direction.
The same research that showed emotional use becoming the top category of GenAI also revealed a rise in conversations centered on life direction, motivation and meaning. Users were not simply asking for productivity tricks or task lists. They were asking for clarity about their values, their goals and the role they want to play in the world. They were trying to understand themselves in moments when their routines felt empty or scattered.
This change is not surprising. Many people today move through life at a pace that leaves little room for reflection. They are pulled between responsibilities, notifications, expectations and pressure. Where is purpose (8Ps) in all of this? The constant stream of digital content keeps the mind busy but rarely nourishes it. When individuals finally pause, they often realize they have not had a clear moment of self-reflection in weeks or even months.
AI becomes a convenient place to begin that process. It provides a private space to explore questions that feel too complex to bring up with friends, or too personal to discuss at work. It offers prompts that help a person look inward when their own thoughts feel tangled. Although it cannot provide a complete answer, it creates an opening for reflection. In a world where meaning feels scattered, that opening matters.
This growing reliance on AI for direction reveals a deeper crisis that many thinkers, including John Vervaeke, have been describing for years. The modern world has lost many of the practices that once helped people build wisdom and purpose. The result is a generation that feels busy yet unanchored, productive yet uncertain, digitally connected yet unsatisfied. The turn to AI is a symptom of that deeper landscape.
The Meaning Crisis and Vervaeke’s Insight
The rise in purpose seeking conversations with AI cannot be understood without looking at the broader cultural landscape. John Vervaeke, a cognitive scientist who has spent years studying wisdom and human development, describes our time as a crisis of meaning. His argument is simple. Modern society has slowly abandoned the practices that once helped people understand themselves and their place in the world. With those practices gone, many individuals feel unmoored.
For most of human history, communities relied on shared rituals, forms of contemplation, structured dialogue and skills that cultivated insight. These practices helped people develop self-awareness, emotional resilience, and a sense of direction. Meditation, philosophy, and deeper debates were not simply a trend. Reflection was not an optional extra. Conversations about values and purpose were daily life. They gave individuals a sense of continuity, belonging, community (11Cs) and clarity (11Cs).
Vervaeke argues that those practices were supported by worldviews that made them feel legitimate. They gave people a framework for understanding why reflection mattered and how inner growth connected to the rest of their lives. When these worldviews faded, the practices faded with them. Without them, individuals lost access to the tools that once guided them toward wisdom and purpose.
The modern environment makes this loss even more visible. Many people live in a state of constant distraction, surrounded by information that keeps them occupied but rarely brings them closer to themselves or available joy. The pace of life leaves little time for contemplation and peace (8Ps). Algorithms shape attention in ways that reward immediacy rather than depth. People stay busy, but the sense of direction that once grounded earlier generations has become harder to maintain.
This is the core of the meaning crisis. It is not that people no longer care about purpose. It is that they have fewer opportunities to cultivate it. They lack the practices that make purpose feel real rather than abstract. They lack the sustained reflection that helps them build coherence (11Cs) in their lives. They lack the sense of connection (7Cs) that comes from shared exploration and mutual understanding.
In this environment, AI becomes an accessible place to begin asking questions that once belonged to more structured practices. People do not always know where to turn when they feel unsure about their direction. They do not always have mentors or communities (11Cs) that help them reflect. AI fills that gap in a basic way. It gives individuals a starting point, even if it cannot provide the deeper practices that build lasting meaning.
This is why the crisis of meaning is not only a philosophical idea but a lived experience for many. It explains why people now turn to AI for clarity and direction. It also shows why technology alone cannot resolve deeper issues. The loss is not technological. It is cultural, social and personal. Meaning grows from practices, not just answers.
AWE Digital Wellness offers an AI Coach that is aware of this growing concern and paradigm and versed in comprehensive happiness and purpose scientific research. It specifically allows users to find more purpose and real connections to themselves, others, and the world. We also have human-guided 25-min Resets where you can practice finding deeper meaning, calm and joy in your week.
Why People Now Ask AI for Purpose
The growing tendency to ask AI about purpose is less surprising when viewed through the lens of daily experience. Many people feel a quiet sense of drift. Their routines move quickly, their attention is fragmented, and the pressure to stay productive leaves little time to consider what they truly want. When life becomes a cycle of reacting to demands, the question of purpose often slips into the background. Eventually, people notice its absence.
AI becomes a convenient point of return. It offers structure at a moment when individuals feel mentally scattered. It provides language for ideas that feel vague or difficult to articulate. When someone feels uncertain about the direction of their career, their relationships or the meaning behind their choices, the first step is often to sort through their own thoughts. A brief conversation with an AI tool gives them a way to begin.
Another reason people turn to AI is privacy. Asking a friend or colleague about purpose can feel too vulnerable. It can bring up fears of judgment or misunderstanding. AI removes that social tension. It creates a private space where individuals can explore questions they may not feel ready to voice aloud. AWE Digital Wellness AI Assistant does not supplant human wisdom but rather supports it in an ecosystem of holistic care for enhanced wellbeing. It bridges the gap between the preferred real human expertise at your disposal.
People also seek AI because it feels neutral. It does not have expectations or opinions shaped by personal history. It listens without interruption and responds without frustration. This neutrality can make it easier for users to think clearly, especially when their own emotions or circumstances feel heavy.
There is a practical dimension as well. Many individuals have lost the routines and practices that once guided self discovery. Without these, they may not know how to explore purpose on their own. AI offers simple prompts that help them begin. It encourages them to examine their values, consider their strengths and ask questions they might not think to explore. It becomes a mirror that helps them see themselves more clearly. Although some generic GenAI focused on profit may lead users to see a distorted mirror, our AWE Assistant begins the conversation without pretending to know all the answers or to carry the ability for real human compassion and care.
In a world where the pace of life often outstrips the pace of reflection, AWE’s Assistant becomes a tool for slowing down. It helps people capture thoughts before they slip away, and revisit ideas they might otherwise ignore. Although it cannot supply purpose, it can help individuals create the mental space where purpose becomes visible again.
This is why the rise in purpose-focused conversations with AI is not a sign of weakness. It is a sign of unmet need.
The Risk: Purpose Cannot Be Outsourced
While AI can help people begin reflecting on their lives, it cannot provide a meaningful life for them. Purpose is shaped through action, practice, and choices over time.
AI can create an illusion of clarity—clean sentences that feel reassuring but may not be grounded in the complexity of real life. True purpose requires effort, patience (8Ps), and a willingness to confront discomfort. Overreliance on prompts can also weaken self-direction. That’s why our AI Assistant works alongside human coaches and Digital Reset guides.
A meaningful life is anchored in relationships, responsibilities and commitments—lived in the physical world. Technology can support reflection, but it cannot substitute lived engagement.
AWE’s Approach: Meaning Through the 8Ps
AWE’s 8Ps methodology helps rediscover meaning through small, repeatable steps:
- Passion, Presence, Patience, Purpose, Playfulness, Perseverance, Peace, Positivity
- Plus helpful lenses: Principles/Attitudes (9As), Priorities, People, Pace, Practice
The 8Ps bring clarity, congruence, and continuity (11Cs). They turn reflection into daily action.
How the AI Coach Supports This Journey
The AWE AI Coach (LUMI) complements the 8Ps. It doesn’t define purpose—it structures reflection:
- Guides toward calm and self-awareness
- Breaks down emotions and choices
- Encourages small, consistent actions
- Grounded in digital-wellness principles to make space for insight
The Coach offers neutrality and consistency so users can return to reflection even on busy days.
How LUMI and the 8Ps Work Together
LUMI (Lightness, Understanding, Meaning, Intention; also from lumière, “light”) guides calm, thoughtful conversations that help users recognize patterns, clarify priorities, and reconnect with practices that lead to purpose. It restores lost habits: presence, reflection, gentle discipline.
AWE Digital Wellness also offers human-led coaching and weekly 25-min Resets. Pairing the 8Ps with LUMI and caring humans creates a path toward a life shaped by intention rather than distraction.